Must-Have Pep Talks for Solopreneurs

Working from home or being an entrepreneur sounds easier than one would think. No traffic, no “office politics,” and no “boss.” With that type of scenario, you should automatically feel less stress, right? Uh, not so much. While being a business owner is one of the most awesome experiences — you work on what you’re passionate about, how you want and when you want — it also means all responsibility falls on your shoulders. If something goes wrong, it’s your fault. All decisions rest with you. And honestly, it can be a lonely existence. You realize you took those small moments with colleagues for granted when you worked in a traditional office setting. 

For me, social media became my outlet and connection point. I bonded with folks on Twitter and Facebook who shared similar interests and a deep desire to build empires :). I “met” Tara Jefferson in the #GOALDiggers Facebook group created by writer Britni Danielle. This group has nurtured several wonderful professional relationships–from gaining business leads to simply being able to vent to someone who understands the entrepreneur/creator lifestyle. Most of all I’ve enjoyed the encouraging words and virtual “pep talks” offered by people who are doing amazing things but understand just how tough and lonely this journey can be for anyone. 

That’s exactly what Tara’s book is all about. The Good Life: Pep Talks for Stressed Solopreneurs is chockfull of tips from REAL entrepreneurs who understand #thestruggle. There will be moments where those closest to you, friends, and family truly don’t get it. 

One of my favorite sections addresses ambition’s double-edged sword:

…when you work for yourself, there is no cap on your salary. If you work hard, you will make a certain amount. Work a little harder or do something a bit differently and then you can make more. As a result, your ambition can spiral out of control. I can say, without question, that I let my ambition run wild. You’d find me muttering things like, “Why am I not making $100K per month?”…It’s important to remember not to push yourself too hard, to get your rest and for all that is good and holy, please take a day off!”

YES!! When you have a “limitless salary cap” and you’re responsible for bringing it in, “work-life balance” becomes incredibly skewed. I truly believe that setting aside downtime made me more productive and creative. 

If you’re already on the solopreneur journey or thinking about it, The Good Life is a great go-to guide to keep you going when the going gets tough.

P.S. my tip about time management is included on pg. 30.